If you are wanting to coach others, consider undertaking coach specific training from a reputable coaching school that has it's coaching programme accredited with the International Coach Federation (ICF) http://www.coachfederation.org/ . This is really important because you need to know what you're doing and you need to have the competencies and skills to do it well. The other benefit from coach training is the opportunity to practise your coaching skills on forgiving others;
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I'm often surprised to find when working with people facing redundancy or massive organisational change, that many have not undertaken any professional development for years, if at all, over the course of their working life. And for many, the reality of what that may mean begins to hit home when they consider competing for positions against people with qualifications or relevant, recent training in particular areas. When people are facing potential job loss or job change,
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I often ask clients to reflect on their working life and identify the number of supportive, inspirational role models they had worked with and learned from. Mostly they identify one, maybe two people and typically go on to count and identify dozens of the other kind – unprofessional colleagues and managers who made their lives a misery, treated people poorly and created a workplace that was stressful and unpleasant. Awful that it may be,
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The hardest thing for busy managers and business owners to do, I've found, is to give themselves the permission to take breaks from their workplace. For many, the work required to prepare for going on leave and the work they face when they return, make them question why they take leave at all. Yet, there is ultimately a cost to not stopping. Perspectives get lost, energy diminishes and work outcomes suffer. We kid ourselves we are productive yet the reality may be very different.
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One issue that greatly disturbs me is hearing new through to very experienced managers speak of 'inheriting' a range of issues when they took up their roles. The inheritances typically, are majors, not minors, like numbers of poor performing staff, seriously dysfunctional teams, chronic under funding or a near complete lack of operating policies or systems. Typically too, managers found the issues were never discussed at interview but were uncovered within a short time as they went about their role.
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In the last three weeks I've had yet more reminders that customer service is almost non-existent in New Zealand. I'm saying this in the context of large service organisations (not retail) and small service providers (private sector) who don't respond to telephone messages or email requests for information. And the most astonishing thing is that when, after five or six attempts at contacting the people concerned, their response to not returning telephone messages or emails,
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What should people look for in a coach? I'm often asked this and my short answer is "a lot". The only way to find out about a coach is to ask a number of questions. Here's my first 10 questions: (1) How long have you been coaching? (2) How many hours of coach-specific training have you had? (3) What coaching credentials have you got? (4) What's your membership status with the International Coach Federation?
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I've learned a bit about 'tolerations' over the years and until yesterday, thought I had got them sorted. I had reduced my tolerance levels to irritants like dripping taps or an untidy office space, finding they were distracting and wearying and fixing the irritant the moment it first became obvious was the only way to go. Yet over the last three weeks I have tolerated extremely poor service from two service providers.
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I've done a lot of learning over the years, that has included formal tertiary studies as well as informal skills acquisitions. I've known for a while that there are always frustrations mixed with the joys of learning, but until relatively recently, I didn't realise there were a number of sequential stages to be gone through in the learning process. I've found too, that the stages can't be skipped, however much we'd like to do so.
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An often-heard coaching myth is that face to face coaching is the only way to work with clients. I say no, that isn't so, as other forms of coaching – over the telephone, through emails – are equally effective and valuable. The principles of working with a client are the same no matter what format is used – setting the foundation through establishing a coaching agreement; co-creating the relationship, by establishing trust with the client and a coaching presence;
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